What is kinky? Sexually speaking, “Kinky” refers to sexual practices which are perverse, abnormal, deviant, unconventional or perverted. Doesn’t really explain it though, does it? What is kinky to one person may be standard play to another. To discern what is kinky we need to look at the “norm” of sexual behaviors for the majority of persons and then look outside of that to discuss kinky. Keeping that in mind, here are some kinky things that men may want in bed.
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Take It Up The Back Alley. Anal play for women doesn’t seem to be considered “kinky” whereas, anal play for men definitely does. Rimming (licking) the anal entrance or using a finger during oral can also be considered somewhat in the normal range. However, using a vibrator or a strap-on DEFINITELY qualifies as kinky! Anal play for heterosexual men is sometimes a hard subject to broach, but once it is tried many men find it extremely pleasurable.
Be Large and In Charge. Men are Dominant by nature, especially when it comes to sex. They tend to be the “takers” (think caveman style) and do not often relinquish that control to their female partners in any significant way. Many men report being interested in being dominated by their female partners in a more extreme manner. The “Domme” fantasy runs deep and brings many possibilities for fun and adventurous play. When women are the aggressors and take what they want for a change, the ride can be invigorating!
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Itty Bitty Bites and Some Slaps. When sex gets so heated that you have to bite – it is 
a good night. A little nibble on the earlobe is fun and flirty – but a real bite to the shoulder during sex is HOT! Not blood-drawing bites, but just some pretty firm attention getters!
Bite his thigh, his ass cheek, his chest – he will love it. Similarly, occasionally a little slap during foreplay can get some men ready to go. Not angry slaps – lustful slaps! If you don’t know what a lustful slap is – then you need to find out!
Mirror Image. Men are VERY visual – they love to look at beautiful women and at
beautiful people having sex. What better idea than to combine these and have sex in front of a large mirror! He can watch himself pleasuring or being pleasured by you. Men love to watch anyway, but being able to see the entire act in action is another level to add to the party. Try placing more than one mirror around so that you can always see the action. If you want to take this one step further you could video tape it for a later viewing. Now that says personal-porn-kinktastic!
Take It To The Streets. Sometimes kinky is not just action but location. Sometimes men just want to take you – wherever you happen to be. Outside the bar in the alley, in the car on the side of the road or in a restaurant bathroom. Having sex in a location that is not the bedroom and is semi-public (or very public) is a kinky high that most men fantasize about! Having her drop to her knees on the street at 3:00 A.M. screams FUN and KINKY!
Threesomes. While you may not actually take the step to have a threesome, statistically this is the number one male fantasy – to have 2 women at once in bed. So, if you are kinky and adventurous enough to take that step, asking another lovely lady to join you in bed can be the kinkiest experience of your life. Or, if you can’t convince your partner to go along, you can perhaps talk about the fantasy or watch some threesome porn together to get the creative thoughts pumping.