Tips For Role Playing In The Bedroom


Role Playing can be a fun and experimental way to add something saucy to your sex life.  For many couples, role play is a fairly regular activity.  For others, it may be a once a year special activity.  Especially long term partners who need to add a little something extra to their normal routine can benefit from bedroom playtime.  Whether you are active role players or just thinking about adding in some fantasy fun, this article will provide you with a few tasty tips for bedroom role play.

 Introduction To Bondage

DISCUSS FANTASIES:  The first thing you need to do when discussing possible role play in the bedroom is to decide exactly what turns you both on.  Does your husband have the naughty nurse fantasy?  Perhaps your girlfriend daydreams about firemen.  Therefore step one decides exactly what role play scenario is going to make you both the hottest! 

 

Roleplay couples sex spankingDRESS THE PART:  While you most certainly can role play without investing in costumes it can really add that extra level if you go the distance and dress the part.  There are usually sexy versions of costumes (nurse, doctor, baker, fireman, policeman) that you can purchase to bring your role play to life with a sexy edge.  If you want to do role play without a costume, try to find things in your normal wardrobe which could help to bring the fantasy to life.

Beginner Bondage Must Haves

 

STAY IN CHARACTER:  Role play can cause a lot of giggling and nervousness, especially for newbies.  While it is certainly OK to laugh and be nervous, it is also beneficial to try and stay in character.  IF you are going to be a naughty nurse and sex-starved patient then stay in character.  Throw around some terminology that brings the role playing to life.  Try to agree not to shift out of the characters you are playing until after you have completely run the fantasy’s course!

 

TAKE IT OUTSIDE:  After you have had a few dry runs with role playing and you both find it stimulating you can discuss taking it out of the bedroom.  Role playing advanced level is when you take your sexy fantasies into the real world.  For example, playing high-priced hooker and John can take on a whole new level of erotic when you meet your “John” in a bar and negotiate the terms of your “tricks.”  Being alter egos in public and pretending you don’t know each other can seriously add something extra to the role playing. Just be sure to be prudent about things you do or say in public!